util: use HAVE_FDATASYNC to determine fdatasync() use

Rather than just using it on Linux and NetBSD, use `fdatasync()` based
on whether it's available. i.e it is available in newer versions
of FreeBSD (11.1 and later).

This also aligns our code more closely with what is being done in leveldb.

Was pointed out by Luke in #19430.

src/util/system.cpp

@@ -1021,7 +1021,7 @@ bool FileCommit(FILE *file)
         return false;
     }
 #else
-    #if defined(__linux__) || defined(__NetBSD__)
+    #if defined(HAVE_FDATASYNC)
     if (fdatasync(fileno(file)) != 0 && errno != EINVAL) { // Ignore EINVAL for filesystems that don't support sync
         LogPrintf("%s: fdatasync failed: %d\n", __func__, errno);
         return false;